So many times, I hear guys saying, “women are complicated, they want too much” and it’s really simple, guys. Women just want you to be you but confident with yourself. Loving yourself. Loving your life. Not feeling like you need a person to complete you or that you’re putting your emotions and sense of self-worth on her or the relationship. Basically, a woman wants the same things that you want because don’t you want a woman who loves herself and values herself and loves her life, too?
Flirt before getting into nitty-gritty sexual pursuit
Whether they are just meeting you, or married for decades, women love flirting. Don’t just grab at her in a blunt sexual way. Instead, use soft touch, a lingering gentle kiss on the neck or a wicked wink. Caress or kiss her hand. Flirting goes a long way to get the juices going. And it will bring a woman’s attention to the relationship and to you.
Be a bit cocky when you do flirt.
Give yourself a Diamond Self nickname like Captain Jack, or Slow Hand Luke. Look at her like you’re about to devour her with your eyes. Make cocky statements like, “You are going to love what I’ll be up to in bed with you!” This is a matter of acting confident. It will give her the vibe of the alpha male, which is usually irresistible to women.
Be consistent in giving her attention
If you are dating, make sure you make regular contact via text, calls and setting up dates. Don’t let her fall into anxiety wondering if you are ghosting her. If you are living together or married, don’t get lost in work and diss her! Pay attention and respond rapidly when your beloved initiates contact with you.
Compliment her
Women absolutely love appreciation and validation! Notice what she does, looks like, or is wearing. Appreciate the gifts of beauty, presence, food and love she brings. Then give her sincere compliments. You can say, You really make me feel so happy! I love that sexy dress on you! You are the most wonderful woman and the best cook in the world! You get the idea!
Process your real feelings with her
Women like to hear what is really going on with their partners at an emotional level. If you are having problems at work, let her know you are feeling anxious, sad, or resentful of you’re a#*hole boss. This is so much better than just coming home in a foul mood and getting angry at her. Or withdrawing from her. Instead ask her if you can go for a walk together and talk about what is really going on with you. This way, she will feel close to you and can be emotionally supportive. Women love to be emotionally there for their guys.
When she is talking, simply listen to her (especially when she’s upset!)
Women need to be heard. They need to process their thoughts and emotions even more than guys do. This is very important in order to have a relationship in which your woman feels understood by you. And close to you. When she talks, do not bring up your concerns. Stop talking yourself and, instead, listen carefully. And nod your head to indicate you understand what she is feeling. You will have one happy woman!
Do not attempt to fix her problems if she does not ask you to
But what if she is massively upset, crying and miserable? Or furious because someone screwed her over. In those situations, you will feel like you HAVE to give her advice. That you need to help her to quiet down and to stop being so upset. To solve her problem once and for all. Resist these helpful impulses If she does not ask for help or advice! Instead just listen!
Promptly help her solve her problems if she asks you for help
If she finally admits she cannot fix the computer issue that is driving her crazy. Or that she need help in figuring out how to handle her narcissistic boss, and then asks you for help, give it to her right away. Show her that she is important in your life. And that being for her comes first. No excuses about you being too busy at work, etc. Drop everything , give her advice and/or go to her and help her out. Show her that she is your Beloved! And you are there to care for her and help make her life great.
Tell her how much you love her!
In fact, you can use texts, emojis, cards, words, gifts and gestures to tell your beloved how much you really love her. Whether you have been together for several months or many decades, this is very important. Women thrive on romance!
